For dating someone older
"Older [partners] are typically past the point of game-playing because they've hopefully already been in a serious relationship and have learned how to be vulnerable," says author and life coach Kali Rogers. So if that doesn't bother you — or it seems like a positive thing — it may make for the perfect partnership.
Rogers warns situations like these can erupt in jealousy, though, so make sure you're cool with exes and whatnot before jumping in.
Besides, I wouldn’t want the finger pointed at me for having a part in keeping him from doing what he needs to do to get ahead.So allow yourself that wiggle room and expand your search to include people you might have deemed too "old" in the past.They'll likely bring to the table all sorts of wonderful qualities, and be quite the refreshing change to what you're used to.Instead of cussing them good, just say, “No comment.” Don’t come in thinking you’ve found a sugar daddy, or that because he’s older he will have his life together and be wise. He might be in a world of debt and have a sideways way of thinking as opposed to an IRA account and a wealth of wisdom from past experiences.Every man is different, and sometimes change of self doesn’t come with a change in age.
much younger than you, it may be the perfect time to increase your dating age range to include someone who's a bit more established in life.